Avez-vous vu le TedTalk de Brené Brown sur le pouvoir de la vulnérabilité?
C’est un must.
Son message est puissant: si vous souhaitez avoir de vraies relations avec les autres, vous devez accepter d’être « vus », i.e. vous devez montrer votre vulnérabilité.
Nos entretiens sont d’ailleurs basés sur cette idée. Nos Braves ont non seulement un parcours courageux; elles s’ouvrent aux autres, se montrent telles qu’elles sont et, ainsi, réussissent à toucher le cœur des personnes qui les écoutent.
Sinon, à quoi bon partager son histoire?
Voici un extrait de son TedTalk:
“And so here’s what I found. What they had in common was a sense of courage. And I want to separate courage and bravery for you for a minute. Courage, the original definition of courage, when it first came into the English language — it’s from the Latin word « cor, » meaning « heart » — and the original definition was to tell the story of who you are with your whole heart. And so these folks had, very simply, the courage to be imperfect. They had the compassion to be kind to themselves first and then to others, because, as it turns out, we can’t practice compassion with other people if we can’t treat ourselves kindly. And the last was they had connection, and — this was the hard part — as a result of authenticity, they were willing to let go of who they thought they should be in order to be who they were, which you have to absolutely do that for connection. » – Brené Brown